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My account was deleted based on their assumption that I was still married . Attempted to contact them and they have not resolved it
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#4134190 Review #4134190 is a subjective opinion of poster.
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Profile put back up
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Can't log in my email does not work to get passwords need to put new password

I forgot my user name And password You sent it to my email my I dont see it In my junk mail either I would like to start over New user name new password Kittie strode Kittiekats139@***.net Thank you let me know if I can do that
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Trying to report possible scammer is not easy. Should be a phone number to call

I was winked at and the photo and profile seemed great. I then did large reply message and as the person lived a long way from me I suggested using FaceTime and provided my number. They called back but my phone was on vibrate and I did not get the call. I called back and no pick up and left message. Then noticed their photo and profile was gone. Then noticed the phone number shows as Los Angeles yet the profile shows living in Minnesota. If she chose to block me after seeing my recently posted pic that is fine but concerned about the person using my personal contact info in a bad way.

User's recommendation: Report scammer hot line.

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#3587407 Review #3587407 is a subjective opinion of poster.
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Brampton, Ontario
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Let the company propose a solution

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Heard from contact Stephen at ChristianCafe who tried to explain away his actions i.e. absurd statement that I had complained to them over 20 times. Offered 0 to make up for the fact I have not had 1 contact from them since they disabled my account. User's...
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#2160593

This member of our Christian dating site, ChristianCafe.com, has written to us over 20 times (literally; we have the emails) and we've spoken with her by phone. Despite these many attempts, we haven't been able to impress upon her what information our system is sending to her, and why.

What she's complaining about: - There aren't very many men aged 80+ who live near her. Unfortunately, this isn't something we control. - When men who are interested in her write, if she doesn't like them she complains that we're sending her matches she doesn't want. Again, this isn't something we control.

On ChristianCafe.com we permit members to write to those who interest them and we believe our members are best at determining compatibility. - She creates searches and our system shows her matches based on her criteria. For some reason, she doesn't actually want men who fit the criteria she chooses, so she complains that our system isn't sending her what she wants. Yet our system is showing her men who fit *exactly* the criteria she has chosen.

- Despite our many, many attempts to explain how the site works, she refused to listen but continued to complain each time our system emailed a match for her if she didn't like him. We eventually disabled mailings to her, though this didn't impact her profile in any way, nor did it impact her matches; it just ensured she wouldn't receive a mailing from us which she didn't understand. - She wrote a while later, complaining that she wasn't receiving any mailings from us. When we explained that we had disabled the mailings, she concluded we had 'disabled her account' (even though she was still using it).

This was also despite our attempts to emphasize that her account was unaffected; only our mailings to her were disabled. We work hard to assist our members as needed so they can use our dating service effectively and address any questions they have. We have many awards for "best customer service", e.g. Newsweek Magazine has ranked us #1 or #2 in customer service for online dating for the past 4 years in a row.

These awards and overwhelmingly positive feedback our staff has received from happy members of our Christian dating site are proof that we treat our members well. We're especially proud that over 25,000 marriages(!) and countless connections have resulted from our dating service!

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#3401163 Review #3401163 is a subjective opinion of poster.
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Vancouver, British Columbia

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After paying for a 6 month subscription, 2 months later I wondered why I didn’t receive any contacts for dating. I finally got an email saying they’d disabled my acct

They had not advised me they were doing this ... like how dare they when they had my money! The guy supposedly in customer service said I had kept complaining ??? I had contacted them to ask why they were sending me contacts who lived thousands of miles away?? Also for...
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#2160592

This member of our Christian dating site, ChristianCafe.com, has written to us over 20 times (literally; we have the emails) and we've spoken with her by phone. Despite these many attempts, we haven't been able to impress upon her what information our system is sending to her, and why.

What she's complaining about: - There aren't very many men aged 80+ who live near her. Unfortunately, this isn't something we control. - When men who are interested in her write, if she doesn't like them she complains that we're sending her matches she doesn't want. Again, this isn't something we control.

On ChristianCafe.com we permit members to write to those who interest them and we believe our members are best at determining compatibility. - She creates searches and our system shows her matches based on her criteria. For some reason, she doesn't actually want men who fit the criteria she chooses, so she complains that our system isn't sending her what she wants. Yet our system is showing her men who fit *exactly* the criteria she has chosen.

- Despite our many, many attempts to explain how the site works, she refused to listen but continued to complain each time our system emailed a match for her if she didn't like him. We eventually disabled mailings to her, though this didn't impact her profile in any way, nor did it impact her matches; it just ensured she wouldn't receive a mailing from us which she didn't understand. - She wrote a while later, complaining that she wasn't receiving any mailings from us. When we explained that we had disabled the mailings, she concluded we had 'disabled her account' (even though she was still using it).

This was also despite our attempts to emphasize that her account was unaffected; only our mailings to her were disabled. We work hard to assist our members as needed so they can use our dating service effectively and address any questions they have. We have many awards for "best customer service", e.g. Newsweek Magazine has ranked us #1 or #2 in customer service for online dating for the past 4 years in a row.

These awards and overwhelmingly positive feedback our staff has received from happy members of our Christian dating site are proof that we treat our members well. We're especially proud that over 25,000 marriages(!) and countless connections have resulted from our dating service!

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